Happiness is a state of mind. I came across this quote via google. Before that, I had just listened to people who used it in a regular dialogue. I do not know where the quote comes from so, I leave that work for my fellow readers to enlighten me. Trust me! I love people who adds up to my content.
For people who think happiness is subjective. I would like to disagree. Happiness is subjective for people who have tied it to a certain goal. “I will be happy when I get a loneliness” “I will be happy when I travel this country.” “I will be happy when I have this someone in my life.” “I will be happy when my turnover is in trillions” Despite of the what if, I just want you to separate these two for once and see. It is nobody’s fault that we tie our happiness with goals that is what we have been taught all our lives, that is how most of us were raised. Remember the infamous questions like “Why are your grades not as good as Sharmaji’s kids?” they kept on asking, we kept on answering. Only with the grinding of life the questions grew harder and we got accustomed to the things being thrown our way. “A 7 figure salary, luxurious villa, beautiful spouse, second home and 3-4 cars” I will retire happy when I am done with these.
Were you ever told as a kid you will be happy “when you get that toy?” Well most of the kids I have come across are happy. It is only when they get a gift, a toy, a dress that level of happiness elevates. “I will be happy” – “I am happy”. These 2 sentences when believed with zero conditions applied can do wonders to your mental health. Of course there will be low days. None of us can stop a heartbreak, loss of a friend, bad day at work coming in your way, if it is already destined. But, these lines at such odds too can promise you a bright smile.
Trying to prove everyone wrong, we have wronged ourselves at so many levels that to half of you it will not even make sense. But, more than reading this piece needs understanding. Share with the people you care. And simply decide to be happy. Everything else will come our way.😇
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ReplyDeleteYes being happy is important😊
ReplyDeleteNice one
ReplyDeleteHappiness is not an ideal of reason, but of imagination
ReplyDeleteAwesome dude
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ReplyDeleteAmazing !!
ReplyDeleteVery nice 👍😊
ReplyDeleteAwesome piece of writing.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I believe that you cannot *always* choose to be happy in *every* situation you face in your life. There are times when you cant help but lie down on floor grasping for your breath..and there are times when you just want to tell the whole world in which cloud are you in!
The difference is..your outlook towards the situation.
I would think, just be open and accepting towards each and every emotion you feel and then only you will experience true happiness!😄
But, as you've stated, happiness is a state of mind, clearly says it all!
Cheers bro!
Really being happy is a key to success 😊
ReplyDeleteWell said bro. and keep it up !!!!
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ReplyDeleteEk no. Mere bhai.. 😎
ReplyDeleteWonderful thought keep it up dear
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written.
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